I’ve held off on blogging about this very sad situation until all the evidence was in and conclusive. Simply put:
This is the face of a killer…Sahel Kazemi.
Here’s the smiling face of a cheater….Steve McNair
What you don’t see are the faces of his 4 children. They are the innocent victims. His wife was well aware of his cheating ways & she stayed for reasons we can only assume. So no, I don’t have sympathy for her.
See if the cards are falling for you, play 
DC Fab!
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 11:07 am
Dag, this post was harsh. It’s a sad situation all around. No sin is greater than another but I will say, when you break the covenant of marriage NOTHING ever good comes from it but I don’t think the man deserved to die. Like I always say, be careful of who you bring around you and especially of who you get into relationships with.
mdsteelergal
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 11:12 am
Well dang Sissy! Tell us how you REALLY feel. LOL! *smooches* Well, I have no sympathy for her either, but I totally agree that now his children will have to endure the mixed messages about their father. About how their father was a GREAT Football player, but died such a tragic death due to his infidelity. Man! If as adults we would only THINK first! My wish is that the children left behind and the parents still grieving will be able to always remember the good in Steve McNair. And, that’s it for now
mrsFAB
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 11:17 am
Very sad indeed. But Michelle has been knowing what’s up for years. Poor kids… All this for a piece of a$$!
mindpinball
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 11:26 am
Not everyone pays the ultimate price for infidelity, but unfortunately for Steve McNair, it happened to him. As you say, it’s the children who will suffer, for they will have to hear how their father, admired as a tough competitor on the football field and a good man off of it, suffered his fate this way.
pigskinlovinglady
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 11:38 am
I was not trying to come off harsh. The details of the case are out there..why elaborate on the fact that he shamed his name and his fame for a piece of ass? Those of us who follow these players off the field, was well aware of his cheating and so was his wife. In an attempt to keep the focus on whats important I omitted the above and placed empathy and focus where it was necessary…his children.
Phyllis
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 12:18 pm
If I were his wife I’d bury him in a cardboard box and write, “ship to hell” on it with a Sharpie.
Inkognegro
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 12:25 pm
alrighty then. Ill just Dap all the above commenters and keep my cheating bastard sentiments to myself.
*puts hands in his pockets and saves his two cents for his own blog another time*
ms_complexity
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 4:17 pm
Ladies – NEVER DATE A MARRIED MAN…HE WILL NEVER LEAVE HIS WIFE.
Also – leave a damn married man alone. Stop coveting what you can’t have.
Hey Ms. Pigskin – Dwight Freeney is in the August 2009 issue of Essence’s bachelor issue. Thirsty for a wife! LMAO! He is FINE!
Molly
Comment on July 8, 2009 at 6:51 pm
damn girl! That is harsh.
I feel sorry for the wife, whether she did or didn’t know- she still has to wipe the tears of her children. End of story.
Cheating is awful, horrible and it takes a certain type of person to do it (one lacking in ego). We all know this, yet it happens way too much.
Doesn’t call for the death sentence though. At least not here in these parts (isn’t it or wasn’t it practiced in some religions- stoning to death).
The NFL Chick
Comment on July 9, 2009 at 11:28 am
I don’t think it’s harsh at all. Mechelle knew what kind of man she had. Most athletes are cheaters, it is their choice to stay around and deal with the backlash, i.e. infidelity, children out of wedlock, or even murder because of a jealous lover.
The kids need the sympathy. They can’t make a choice of who their daddy is. But I understand PLL’s POV
London
Comment on July 9, 2009 at 2:15 pm
I don’t think your post was harsh I think it was ignorant! I feel sorry for any mother that lost her husband and is now a single mother trying raise boys to men. He cheated so he is in the wrong we always find a reason to blame the woman. I pray that McNair RIP even though he was a cheater and I pray for his family to cope.
pigskinlovinglady
Comment on July 9, 2009 at 2:23 pm
London what was ignorant about my post? I stated facts. Furthermore, I didn’t blame anyone, I simply said that I DO NOT HAVE sympathy for his wife. She lost her husband years ago when she kept allowing him to cheat on her… Yes, she’s sad but more than anything embarrassed and probably relieved. I choose to focus on the kids. They didn’t ask to be here or to be apart of this mess. But thanks for stopping by and commenting. Its very much appreciated.
LONDON
Comment on July 9, 2009 at 4:48 pm
WELL I RESPECT YOUR OPINION AND ENJOY YOUR BLOG. I DISAGREE BUT I RESPECT IT. MAYBE YOU KNOW HER PERSONALLY AND NO MORE ABOUT THE SITUATION. I SERIOUSLY DOUBT IT THAT SHE WAS RELIEVED BUT YOUR THE EXPERT. KEEP DOING YOUR THING I LOVE THE BLOG. CAN YOU DO SO MORE COVERAGE OF NNAMDI ASOMUGHA